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| * Expectations | * Expectations | ||
| * what do you expect of your SELF? | * what do you expect of your SELF? | ||
| + | * why do you expect those things and are they realistic? | ||
| + | * short-term vs long-term expectations? | ||
| * what do you expect of others? | * what do you expect of others? | ||
| + | * why do you expect those things and are they realistic? | ||
| + | * short-term vs long-term expectations? | ||
| + | * what do you need from others? | ||
| + | * what do you want from others? | ||
| * what do others expect of you? | * what do others expect of you? | ||
| * why do they have these expectations? | * why do they have these expectations? | ||
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| * youth | * youth | ||
| * health | * health | ||
| + | * experience/ | ||
| * friends | * friends | ||
| * family | * family | ||
| + | * results may vary | ||
| * Debts/ | * Debts/ | ||
| * challenges or obligations that must be addressed at some point | * challenges or obligations that must be addressed at some point | ||
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| * do they trust you as much as you trust them? | * do they trust you as much as you trust them? | ||
| * if not why not? | * if not why not? | ||
| - | * Expectations | ||
| - | * expectations of others | ||
| - | * what are your expectations of others? | ||
| - | * why do you expect those things and are they realistic? | ||
| - | * short-term vs long-term expectations? | ||
| - | * what do you need from others? | ||
| - | * what do you want from others? | ||
| - | * others expectations of you | ||
| - | * are those expectations realistic? | ||
| * Respect | * Respect | ||
| * respect yourself and expect others to show you respect | * respect yourself and expect others to show you respect | ||
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| * never accept credit for something done by another | * never accept credit for something done by another | ||
| * always share credit with a group if you can | * always share credit with a group if you can | ||
| + | * Relationships | ||
| + | * what is your relationship with yourself? | ||
| + | * evaluate what you like in yourself | ||
| + | * do you respect those things? | ||
| + | * do you reflect those things? | ||
| + | * relationships with others | ||
| + | * do others recognize and respect those aspects you like best in yourself? | ||
| + | * do you recognize the aspects, both good and bad, in others? | ||
| + | * are there negative aspects in others that you choose to ignore? | ||
| + | * why and is that something you can maintain long-term? | ||
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| * the best relationships are those were the people involved change in compatible ways | * the best relationships are those were the people involved change in compatible ways | ||
| * be careful and deliberate in who you trust | * be careful and deliberate in who you trust | ||
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| - | * | + | * recognize and respect your good aspects |
| + | * find people who recognize and respect those aspects too | ||
| + | * recognize your bad aspects | ||
| + | * evaluate if you want to change those aspects | ||
| + | * not all bad aspects can be changed (probably) | ||
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